Last night Pastor Cooley at Burgess Road Baptist Church preached a sermon on being judgmental. It was very thought provoking, so I wanted to give some of his ideas and a few comments of my own!
James 4:11 Speak not evil one of another, brethren. He that speaketh evil of his brother, and judgeth his brother, speaketh evil of the law, and judgeth the law: but if thou judge the law, thou are not a doer of the law, but a judge.
The issue of being judgmental is a hot topic. Most often people who are doing wrong like to quote the phrase “judge not that ye be not judged” thinking that that means Christian should not tell unbeliever or fellow Christians they are sinning. Yet, this is not what is being said. I want us to consider two things: When can we judge, and When can’t we judge!
1. When Can We Judge? The answer is simple, NEVER! I know I have most everyone’s attention now, either you’re saying “yeah, give it to them”, or you’re saying “you heretic, we don’t just over look sin!” Well sorry to both parties, but I doubt either of you will be completely happy with my answer. We are not to judge, that is not our responsibility, the Law is to judge, that is it’s responsibility! We are only to point out what the Bible has to say on issues and the Bible is our standard, not what we THINK/WANT the Bible to mean/say! The Bible is the authority on right and wrong, it decides we don’t!
2. When Can’t We Judge? Now you’re thinking this sounds a bit repetitive, but with this point my goal is to look at areas where we are often judgmental and should not be. We often find ourselves judging the spiritual level/condition of a person by the external: what they wear, what they listen to, where they go, etc. Though there are some guidelines in the Bible, often these areas are not spelled out, and guess what?!?! it is not our job to spell them out for everyone, we are not the lawgiver. Another area that we often judge is people’s intentions: “this is what they really meant,” “they only did that for attention, ” I know why they did that,” etc. Though at times we may be able to guess someone’s intentions, often we’re wrong, and it is not our responsibility to know if the intentions were right or not. To go along with the last point, sometime we judge people’s actions as wring when their intention might have been good (I’m not talking about sinning with a “good intention”). I think of times when I have tried to help someone, but in reality I only made it worse. When this happens we need to be careful on to judge. On a larger scale we need to be careful about judging other ministries! Often when a person does something new in a ministry, those that don’t agree label them as comprises. Now we must be careful not to compromise with the world, but there are many times where new things are not compromise just different. If we are going to “judge” them as compromised, we must make sure that what we think is wrong, is said to be wrong according to what the Bible says (not what we THINK/WANT it to mean/say).
I hope this gives you food for thought! Be careful about judging people by standards that are not Biblical, because if you do you will be judged by those same standards, “judge not, that ye be not judged.”
~ Nate